Hi Sara. I read some of your posts in BobbiJo's thread. My M has been in trouble for years. My H basically decided two or three years ago he was done, but didn't bother to tell me until a year ago when I confronted him. He moved out last fall and now insists he wants a divorce. H has refused MC, but he has finally gone with me twice for divorce counsling with our Ds' T. Those sessions have been both painful and frustrating because H isn't willing to open up. At this point I have pretty much agreed to the divorce, not because it is what i want, but because I can't keep living this way. I also don't want to keep doing this to the Ds. I did want to do a Retrouvaille weekend and emailed H about it months ago. I got no response about it then so I don't think I could get him to go now. My Ds and I have started looking for a house to move to and H and I are starting to discuss how finances are going to go. When is it too late for Retrouvaille?
