I'm with limbo. I'm as pro-"games" and pro-"playing offense" as anyone on this entire forum, but I think you're playing with fire here. The way to create jealousy (and I don't think it's a bad play) is to simply be more dark, and more mysterious, and do things like being all dressed nice and smelling nice when you drop the kids off, and when she asks you where you're going, say "To meet some friends" and leave it at that. Things of that sort. ACTUALLY SEEING OTHER WOMEN is NOT advisable, nor is putting things IN WRITING that would indicate that you are.
Your lawyer is going to have a conniption fit if he/she's any good at all.
