Hope4us struggle, part 7

[Hope4us]

Thanks guys. Things seem to be going in the right direction, but I'm still leery.

So tell me what you think about this. Last night W started getting quiet. She'd respond to me when I talked to her and we watched some funny video's on Youtube together, but by the time I went to bed she was pretty quiet. I said to her before I went up stairs "I wanted to say thanks again for suggesting the trip this weekend. I really had a good time. See you in the morning" and she just sat there without saying a word. She nodded when I said I had a good time and nothing else. I know she had a good time because she told both the boys independently of each other that she had fun.

So WTF? Is she now really thinking what a mess she's made of all this?

And don't shoot me, but given her comments about the guy hitting on her while we were there telling her how beautiful she was I sent her a note first thing this morning telling her I thought she was the most beautiful woman in the world and I had a great time this weekend.

I know, I know, don't pursue, but I had to get that in there. When she told me the guy had said that Sat night I told her he was right, but since she brought it up again on the way home yesterday I know she was looking for affirmation from me so I wanted to make sure she knows how I feel.

This is the hard part. I know not to pursue, but it seems like there comes a point where you have to start pursuing just a little. I'm sure right now she needs/wants to know that I think she's attractive, etc, so I felt like I had to send the note.

Comments?