All the way through this sitch I have found procastination iis my friend. Leave something a couple of days and I feel different. Right now I am not doing anything , I am just dealing with each day as it comes , knowing that I am in control of my life but not sure of where to steer it towards. A lot of good things have happened this last 2 years that would not have happened if things had remained the same. I am tending to sway towards insisting on more of a separation with W once I get back on the basis that her being in my life so much is preventing me from moving on. Perhaps it will be the absolutely last resort technique and one that I need to be comfortable with the consequences of.
