Bomb was in Jan 06, A/PA was confirmed Oct 06, she got the boot to the curb and I started DB late Oct early Nov.
I DB for about 6 months and figured that I should give up and move on with my life. My MLCer has shown some regret (I think) with crying phone calls but is still out in left field with non payment of CS etc.
It is over now, I got a D and for me it is what I needed mentally. I am a healthy person now and in a new R for about a year.
Unfortunately I will have to deal with her for another 8 years at least once my kids (I have sole custody) are grown I wont have to speak to her or see her again.
Oh and there is a bizarre shift towards home (or is it?) She has been flaunting herself at me in an attempt for sex recently. It does nothing as she does this almost in front of OM who she lives with and does this with her love child in plain sight.
Bottom line is I am over her now, she needs to get over me!