I should add that for the past month she has gotten nasty and always ends up saying sorry. this is a superficial temporary "sorry". I feel like I should "back off" for a bit like she complains for and let it sink in how she's acting immature

2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF

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