Well, have had to keep myself busy this weekend to stop from brooding and obsessing. I keep playing imaginary conversations and possible scenarios over in my head. I suppose its a good sign he has had the courage to agree to a meeting as he runs away from anything potentially unpleasant.Will try to be pleasant and businesslike and not talk about relationship but it will be hard to avoid divorce talk as this affects finance discussion.Will try to let him lead the meeting and talk about what he wants-probably more of the same-space ,and calling infrequently for no particular reason. But if he surprises me and asks for divorce then so be it. I get really angry when I imagine he is trying to force my hand in a passive/agressive way so that he can say "she divorced me" to make him feel better. But why should I do the dirty work? Ive asked hom continuously do you want me to send off the final paper. He has said that he cant bring himself to sign. I guess this is cake eating but I do sense a genuine confusion.
