I think EVERYBODY here in Piecing needs to go to Retro, Heck I think even happily married couples should go. I am very exhausted right now. I went through so many emotions this weekend I am drained. It is a good thing I took Monday off. Now the wife and I have not fixed anything yet except... our communications. WE ARE TALKING AND LISTENING to each other. I want so bad to rush ahead in this process but as the presenter said. "It took years for us to get to this point. We can't fix it overnight. I have seen so many positive changes with W. We still slept in separate beds this weekend but it still was very nice being in the same room at least. I did not hold back. I told my wife some things that I have been holding back for so long. She told me a few things. Even though my wife never said she was sorry for what she had done, through the exercises we did this weekend I know she is truly sorry for the hurt she has caused me. I know it was difficult for her to show up there. But she did. By her actions I know my W does want to try to make our marriage work, Thank you for all of the prayers that were said for me. I really do think God was listening. He has pointed my wife and me in the right direction. Now it is up to us to continue down the path. Those of you in my inner circle of E-mail will be getting some mail in the morning. I just finished my NEW... 20 minute exercise with my wife on communicating that SHE initiated. We will be dedicating 20 minutes everyday to each other. We also have weekend meetings for the next 7 weeks. Sara…Tonight I have forgiven my wife for what she did. I told her I was opening up my heart to her. That I was making myself vulnerable again to her. I told her to please be careful the glue I used to mend my broken heart is not dry yet. What I did not tell her is that it is one thing to forgive. It’s another to forget. This I can never do. Need to get some sleep. You are right Jen.
The call me Dr LOve...............
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
