Okay, dearheart, to me this sounds less like severe boundaries (if that's what you want to call it) and more like a major league p$ssing contest between you two....kind of like "Screw me? No way, screw you!!"
LOL L, Thanks for pointing this out & you're absolutely right, I have to stop taking the bait. Helpful post that goes right to the bottom line....
I'm going to take a break from him & have S16 watching S5 when he comes over tomorrow night. With him leaving on a trip Thursday, there'll only be a couple of days to steer clear & regain my balance.