i could use some quick advice....i left the house tonight after stopped by to tuck my son in. I told her I wasn't keeping our son overnight so she could go to atlantic city with OM. however he's not going, and I have proof he won't be there. However she says "you say you want me to be happy but then you make it difficult" She got a smirk when she told me "it's over" on tuesday. I told her to seriously consider how mature she is acting and that when our son grows up and sees how she handled this it could hurt him. I am trying to be civil and help out around the house. She says we spend more time together than when we were married (not true; i stop by the house 1 hour a day) she says I need to back off too, stop asking her how her day is, telling her she looks nice every other day or two, and stop asking how her parents are doing. *** I said i was leaving because she didn't give a sh!t about any of this and i said good night. 2 hours later I get a text message that says "I'm sorry." I didn't answer it.....1 hour later I get a text saying my name with a ? (as in "are you there?") question is, I don't want to respond. She is treating me like an outcast. ALl because everyone in the universe including her parents are against her seeing this man. She's taking it out on me. Should I not answer her ?
2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF
