I said my thoughts hadn't changed....it's a little too close, I don't care to have his affair in my area & it tells me we're ramping thing's up. Do what you want to do though, & I'll have the offer checked out by my L...
He tells me he's going on a trip Thursday-Sunday. I wonder what the connection is & ask if he's going alone.
He says, Yes, not that he has to answer that though. "Well, no, you really don't. If you are though, then I will proceed & file myself."
Okay, dearheart, to me this sounds less like severe boundaries (if that's what you want to call it) and more like a major league p$ssing contest between you two....kind of like "Screw me? No way, screw you!!" I've seen you abide by the 48-hour rule for a long time, but then he baits you one time too many and you bite... I don't see anything wrong right now with some of the boundaries you have set...it's more not responding in kind...