You just look like the sane one, from here! You are not going to look like the bad guy to anyone that matters.
Yep! My H has one or two loser enabler friends that think he's a good guy (maybe a little anyway) but everyone else knows or has figured out the truth (say they think he's crazy, dumb, MLC or whatever). I think that's probably how it usually goes...
(((((Corey))))) You are such a great, strong person. I'm so sorry you're going through so much pain now. I know it will get better for you!!!