sh- It sounds like you are starting to build more of a friendship with your H and that is wonderful. I think the gift sounds great and I am sure your will H appreciate it...I just hope it doesn't make him feel guilty in some way. You read on here that giving gifts isn't a good idea but you may be a point in your relationship with him that is okay...trust your gut.
You are doing great but try not to think too much about your H and even less about the orge...it takes your focus off where it needs to be and that is on you and your boys.
