I'm always a click away. Thanks for dropping by. You have gone from some name it was fun to cannibalize (chomp chomp) to a dear friend whose thoughts and understanding have been a balm to my existence.
My life is changing dramatically, but it's not falling apart. Perhaps the pieces are falling in place. I don't know but having friends who support me allow me to make the transition with grace, dignity and tremendous growth. You are one of those friends.
I rejoice in the joy and wonder you're experiencing now. Your happiness makes me happy. When you're sad I want to be there as a comfort. Being friends who care doesn't mean we have to be the same place in our marriages.. just that we are the same place in our hearts in how we feel about others.
You're wonderful.
*hugs*
That was funny when you were always making & eating cookies. LOL You have such a way with words. I wish I was so talented. I do support you sweetie, & am honored to be your friend. I love what you say about being in the same place in our hearts. That's sooooo true. You're amazing, & you inspire me to want to be better.
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
As for the puppy, All D can do is ask H. I am not sure if suggesting words for her to use is a good idea or not...but I am sure you can think of something.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
You make me smile, sweet friend! I'll get around to posting thread #5 here shortly. My day was nice... did some shopping (grocery {ugh} and shoes {hooray!}). Does your phone receive photos sent via text message? Did ya get my photo???
If I told you I made the call, how far off the scale would your bullsh!t meter be? I'm procrastinating. Big Time. Is it a bad sign that I'd rather spend money on shoes than my marriage right now?
M: 37 H: 36 Married: Aug 13, 2004 Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008 Reconciled: September 2008 Current: Ambivalence
Good Afternoon Ms Gypsy K Butterfly Evolving Empowered Woman,
how's your day gone so far ?? We are getting pounded by a storm. My dog is flipping out with the thunder, & I'm "busy" lol going to school & messing around here.
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
