Hi peace- I have been at this for 16 months so I am also curious to know if there are LBS's that knew there was a real shift in themselves or a shift in the WAS and when that shift took place. For example, almost 2 years after my first H had left me, I remember having a moment of clarity and deciding that I had had enough. I remember making a conscious choice to move on. Now in my current M, I am sensing my H is shifting toward me but I have no idea if it is for real.
It would be interesting to get different perspectives on this.
Imp- Was there a point when you realized that you had finally let go?
