I read in so may of these sitch'es that the W has talked about the importance of family and the desire to spend quality time with the kids. My W in my "bomb discussion" said over and over that one of the reasons she was seperating was for the "kids". The reality has been that she has spent little or no time with the kids since she moved out.
M: 52 W: 45 M: 21 yrs D: 20 S: 17 D: 15 OM Started 02/2008 Bomb: 5/1/2008 W Moved out: 6/10/2008