so if you're doing it to verify a WAS's contention of no OP, but run the risk of getting caught .... well, I guess it gets tricky and there's probably no one way that's easier to deal with the sitch than another.
This was essentially what happened to me. My W moved out, and since she was working with OM, it was hard to tell what was going on and so I never questioned her honesty. Short of busting into the room where they worked, I don't exactly know how I could have caught them. Cell phone records could certainly have been read as work-related (I did check).
So given a sitch like that, with the goal being to bust up the A as soon as possible, what would your thoughts be? I don't know if this is Purr's sitch, but now I'm curious.
