Hi peace.

My bomb - July 2000
First came to board - Oct 2000
Divorced - Apr 2001 (no fuss)

My former Mrs. IMP actually admitted to MLC (before divorced). She did show uncertainty for a while, i.e. it was not easy for her to fully let go. As many here said she was making baby steps. But they were baby steps away. It was probably another year after the divorce that I felt she had fully let go. The problem was I hadn't fully let go. And looking back that was not helpful. It is hard to change when you are holding on. You can't spread your wings when you are holding on.

IMP