When all the warning signs of an A are there, but W hasn't said anything, and she's moved out so that it's difficult to gather intel, should you take her at her word that there's nothing going on? Just accept the fact that she says she enjoys being with you but doesn't want to be married? Enjoys a new wardrobe, new haircut, new friends, etc.?
Or should you proactively spy on her? Talk to friends? That all could of course backfire if she catches on.
Just wondering what your take is when an A, if there is an A, is secret and a couple is no longer living together.
