One of the best things I learned through this process is that just because someone else says/thinks something doesn't make it true.
Amen to that. I am ALWAYS telling my kids this, just because someone says something, it doesn't make it true.
He needs to believe that you are the bad guy so he can make all of this ok in his own mind. Its not going to last long. As long as he has you to blame right now, its going to be ok...what happens when you are out of the picture and he has to be responsible for his actions? I would imagine it will be OW's fault or the kids or Santa or someone, he just isn't mature enough to accept responsibility, not your problem. I also tell my kids and my co-workers that there are: Y Ps and M Ps (Your problems and my problems) don't make y ps m ps.
You have done so well in all of this and should be proud of the way you have conducted yourself. Just keep up the good work and enjoy the hell out of Disney.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
