thanks Neil- i did realize after I wrote this that him asking what i was doing today was a nice friendly gesture- so thats good...and he has shown positives a lot...
so just like you, i guess im rushing things in my head...he is probably scared- esp bc he hasnt openend up really evver....this si all new territory for him....i just hope he faces hi stuff and doesnt run away ...but i dont see that happeneing...
that is so good to hear a guy's perspective- this is all new..i would usually open up the R talks before and now he is doing it- so its a whole new game...
i agree with everything you said- amazing- the dance is so true!
i will hold tight with the anniversary issue- he may surprise me- if not- ill still have a card for him... :0)
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