I watch in wonder at your relationship with your spouse... his responsible irresponsibility. He loves you and the girls, but doesn't want the marriage. Has the job but not the punctuality. Looking for his own home but wants you to help him with it.
Have you thought of giving yourself a little space during all this.. a little time to decompress? I mean.. you don't want to look too relieved when the D goes through. (joking)
A divorced friend of mine told me to kiss spouse's patookie until everything was done. At first I was offended, but now I wonder about the truth in that statement.
