Finding the old cards is tough. Not too long ago I found 2 "Happy birthday to my wife" cards that had something along the lines of "I love you and I can't picture my life without you" written on the inside. Then I found a paper H had written for a college class about his life and he had a whole page about me and how much our marriage means to him. Shocking how so much can change in a remotely short time (just a few years).
Take the time and dont' worry about what is going on at home.
Sara
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08