Rusty, I think your list is fine. I know that you are scared of this talk, and particularly of him filing for divorce, but honestly, divorce is not the end unless you want it to be.
I would listen to what he has to say, validate his feelings, and yes, tell him that he should do this if he feels he needs to.
No big speeches about how you still love him, etc. Calm and cool as you can possibly be.
(((((Rusty))))) I'll try to be around tomorrow night if you need to post.
Married: 25 years Separated: 5 years Kids: 2, ages 21 and 24 Me: 53 H: 50
