Actually letting them take care of themselves is probably something we should have done a long time ago. I'd gotten to the point that I'd tell him where the men's room was so he wouldn't have to look. May I say, "Duh?"
Reading "Codependent No More" has been great in showing the ways I overdo things without even realizing. I'm spending quite a bit of time in wonder.. and trying to implement simple things like letting the kids figure out the problem without me jumping in with the solution.
I'm still a jumping bean fixer.. but I'm working on it!
