Then and now;

Today I chose not to go to church. I just didn't feel like it. A few years ago I would have been afraid not to go. I would have worried that H would have gotten mad & scolded me when he found out.

Today, when I told him, it didn't even cross my mind to worry. I guess I'm starting to feel like an adult. \:\)

His reaction; "playing hooky huh, cool".


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.