Lost I know how difficult it is and doing the right thing. So funny in a way you are doing the 'right thing' and it feels as if your being punished for that. Like a catch 22 scene.
Well the kids are your decision. I told mine before they figured it out for themselves which they were. My boys would be more resentful to me if hadn't sat them down and warned them in a loving way what was going down in the house.
Now my H left and made a big big scene so that is good. Tonight he keeps calling now he spent the weekend with his GF. Now how do you think his boys feel about him?
Our whole life is nothing but, decisions. Why things happen the way they do. I accept 100% and he should accept his 100% demise of our marriage. Will it happen probably not. You know its funny they are so in denial that really at some points is hilarious. Yet, its your family and the warmth and love in a home that they are mocking.
Well you and i have really same kind of morals. When my boys were born there was NOT going to be a divorce. Hated it in my parents and really messed me up as a teenager. So that fear and abandonment really hurts worse now because its an old issue with me. With no kids I would have left. Guess its called responsibility huh.
Glad to see your doing better it certainly is a ride with lots of twists and turns. So what are your goals in a month or even two? Do you see yourself readily able to forgive and move on to the tougher work of reconciliation? That seems to me even harder than the games they play being a WW. Take care lost
Me 48 H 54 Together 30 yrs M 29 yrs S 24 s 17 EA 10-2007 Denies it every happened
