You do what you wanna do, I leave it all up to you

[Sugar and Spice]

(((MaryAngela))) (((Tal))) thanks to both of you for posting. I'm not sure whats going to happen, although I do know that no matter what after we get the legal stuff out of the way the kids and I will be able to breathe that much easier.

I have no idea why someone would want to have a baby with another womans' husband other than just desperation to continue the R or to force him to choose, neither of which have happened. If H ever does get cleaned up and gives up gambling, OW will be gone too. That is where they met and spend most of their time together. Maybe they will have other interests that will bind them if either chooses to get better, but like most addicts, once they start to move away from the addiction, the people that they associated with during that phase have to go.

Sick people do some of the stupidest things. Oh well, I can't control it, I just have to get out of the way and let whatever happens, happen.