Yes, that's part of what I'm questioning too - If I didn't see it the first time, how will I know if it's happening again? We've always (even through the whole affair believe it or not) had a great relationship, so it's not like there were huge warning signs that I just didn't see.
I also am questioning that if this can happen in a really good relationship, is it really possible to prevent it? I'm starting to believe that sometimes the timing and chemistry are there and affairs happen regardless of the strength of the relationship.
All very confusing to me. I'm struggling to "learn from the experience" so it never happens again, but having trouble finding any real answers.
Anyone else have any words of wisdom as far as how long it takes until you really start trusting again?
