Hi L, You know I appreciate any thoughts you have.
It's sad that I need a flow chart for this R Kalni, don't worry that it's your English, I have a feeling it would hard to follow in Greek!
Yes, Jen, I want to stay married, I just think I need to be clear about what I will stand for. The few times I have drawn a line-in-the-sand, he has not crossed it. May not hold true now, I guess we'll see.
None of the kids, save H's D24 once, have met the OW. He wanted an agreement from me that we would not introduce OP to S5, unitl mutually agreed upon. Easy for me, since there really is no OP & I wouldn't want to anyway.
He is constantly trying to arrange dinner's & outings with my family, like everything is fine with us. I've gone along with it & have had some really nice times, I just think it's sending a "carry on w/OW message", so I've stopped.
If I ever figure out how to link threads it would help. I can't figure out where the UBB is to copy
Since I'm having difficulty thinking clearly today, I am going to be calm & still today Dave, thanks!
It just seems that the A is going right along after 14 months (plus about 6 months secretly).
After that amount of time, you think she would find it odd that she hasn't been introduced to S5, he hasn't filed, still lives in tiny place (so far) when he has other options, & knows that he's bounced back & forth between us.
She does have Celebral Palsy, is in foreclosure, 40yrs & never been married.
My H is very well set financially, nice looking, & used to have a pretty good personality.
CVA tells me she hit the "mother load" & will do whatever it takes to keep him.
I don't like to admit it, but I think she may out last me. Better see what I think tomorrow.
