ms ladybug SQUISHED (3)

[jon2911]

I'm in for the attack. Can I use a purse?

ms ladybug, you're doing great! He's pushing your buttons way too much.

Part of LRT is realizing that you'll be fine without him. And suddenly the "D" word, custody, all of that doesn't scare you to death any more. I don't have answers for how to get there, but detachment and time are big.

When he realizes he can't control or scare you any more, the sitch will turn. And it shouldn't surprise you about this "move with me to the coast" talk. His D talk has never been serious, he just knows it will get to you. Which is mean and incredibly wrong. Someone who wants a D gets a lawyer and files. Period. Your H has done none of that.