Peaches, thanks for your comment. I agree 100% that family is the most important, yet WS don't see that. "Oh the K's will be fine if we D". WHATEVER!!!!!
Lost, they all think that even when studies have been done showing otherwise. Its the babble/alien in them talking.
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
I told my WW that I gave up my right to just walk away from the M without trying absolutely EVERYTHING the minute D16 was born. The W of the family friends I referred to in my post you quoted actually warned WW that if she pushes D, she could easily lose D16 and S13 WHEN they find out about the A because they can choose where they want to live. Still not sure if that has sunk in.
Sorry Lost I would have EXPOSED it already to the kids. Kids KNOW even if you think they don't. They live with you and know you better than anyone else. Let her see the choices she has made and how it effects all her family. It will sink right in. Is there a specific reason you haven't?
Originally Posted By: lost_in_space
bluerain, yes WW is still at home (we still sleep in the same bed). I think she expects me to simply leave so she can carry on with life as she has it now. No chance of that in my books.
what are they thinking of. So amazing and emotionally exhausting to deal with this and work and kids. They have no clue it just knocks the family on its butt! Good Luck lost
Peaches
Me 48 H 54 Together 30 yrs M 29 yrs S 24 s 17 EA 10-2007 Denies it every happened
