Will for sure Ms. B, so far all I know is they ( are suppose) to be leaving Sept.28th

I have been contemplating for a few days now and something Naej said stuck w/ me. I have been stressing and agonizing over S and ex R. Mostly because I worry when I see S not happy. I try to "fix" things like I did when he was young and depended on me to do so, same w/ ex, he looked to me to fix whatever was wrong w/ things between him and S, even after he left-- well I aint doing it anymore!

I wanna enjoy my new life, my fiance, my freedom from work for the time being lol and I am sick of pacing the floors worrying.
Told S, because once again his dad was a no show/no call for lunch today ( so much for " i wanna be a better father" crapola)
and I assume S staying in bed till all hours and his sleeping is to do w/ it and partly his "will never work" long distance R ( which has his sleep pattern all off). Told him if he was going to get upset everytime his dad let him down, well, hes in for some sad times cause sadly his father will let him down more then he wont. Harsh I know but S is an adult, I wouldnt say this to a child. He needs to not depend on him or totally rely on him for social activities,which he has this summer, with his friends from here are slowly moving away and his college buddies are spread out all over AND once again a LD R that just cant work :oP


Did assure him tho that I am sure his dad will be there if he really needed him. This I believe

So i am draggin him out of bed- BOY i've said this for years and I am still saying it, I'LL BE GLAD WHEN SCHOOL STARTS!!

Be Happy for this Moment,
This Moment is your Life