You guessed it she was out all night. Lied to the kids. She text at 11. Are kids up. Up going to church. I text D is up, I'm going to this church. She shows up at our at 11:30 with laundry. We don't say a word to one another. I was just finishing up cleaning from breakfast. Kids were dressed. Brushed their teeth. She doesn't like what they are wearing and makes them change. She brought them clothes.
We take seperate vehicles to church. Kids go with her. I try to give her the enevelope but she doesn't want it. I said please take it because if I usher I forget to put it in the basket. She doesn't.
I beat her to church. I go to the side and pew I always go to. She comes in the with the kids. She asks to for me to let her in. I didn't see her come in because I had my eyes closed. She sits five feet down the pew. Why I don't know. But then her Aunt and cousin sat behinds us and were about five minutes late. She doesn't want people to think we are together????? She is trying to make herself look good in the victim mode. From what I hear she is playing the victim going around telling everyone I was abusive.
During mass she laughs at me about something my son did. During mass I can tell she is getting anoyed because the kids hang all over her. I think she gets touched out.
After the homily she looks over at me and says you need a hair cut. I said I was planning on going after church.
Church ends and she talks to her Aunt. I just walk out the door. I don't try and talk with her or intiate conversation. I get out to the door and I talk with the ushers. The usher tells me his son is going to school so the spot is mine. By that time my wife is standing there and she is listening to our conversation. We shake the priest hand.
Then we walk slowly to our cars. She looks at me and says your son wants to go to petsmart so can you do my laundry. I just give her a dumb look and say do your own laundry. I'm going to get a haircut.
I go to the house to change and she had beat me to the house. She says I thought you were going to get a haircut. I am but I want to change first it's ninty degrees out. Then we go in the house. My daughter mouths off to me. Yeah daddy you can keep the house clean but you can't do one little thing like laundry for mommmy. I said daughter do not talk to me like that. I'm your father. Then I hear my wife downstairs stating to leave her alone. I'm thinking yeah because she is repeating what you say and has the same damn smart mouth. I keep my mouth shut.
Then she comes upstairs goes in the bathroom and pulls down her skirt in front of me. Showing me her but. I give her a dirty look like thanks. She starts walking around the house saying it is a mess.
She is ready to leave so I kiss the kids. Then I go and give her a hug, and I accidently pull her hair. I said I'm sorry then I try to give her kiss on the cheek. She says why would you want to kiss me when you flip out on me about the laundry.
I said excuse I did not flip out. I said you are putting things in your head that are not there. Now I'm flipping out a little because you are trying to make me nuts. I'm not a doormat. Do your own laundry, please go somewhere else and do it.
I stop by and talk to her Aunt and Uncle. I hear alot of garbage from what my father in law is saying. My uncle said he wanted to kick him out of the house. He knows what my wife is like.
Well I texted her. Sorry you feel like I flipped out about the laundry. I didn't.
Then I go and get a haircut. I come home and do some things. Fold her laundry, because I'm a DAM. I also put the other load in the in dryer, and I hung up the skimpy little dress on hanger because it is not a dryer item. But I'm the DAM. Turns out the laterns I bought for the living room pirate theme had a missing part. I decide to run to the store where I got them.
As I'm driving down my road. I pass my wife. I stop, but she doesn't.
Then I get home and she took the laundry basket.
This is just insane....
My cousin through marriage is also texting me and said his wife my wifes direct cousing gave him the ultimatem. Go live with Phil or not I'm still calling the attorney tomorrow because I can not live this way no more. So apparently he is packing his bags and coming over here.
I'm a doormat for everyone... Who else wants to come over and do laundry. Please bring your own detergent.
