Hi lwb - I know that in the beginning my stbx was very supportive and wanted to "help" me find a new place, etc. According to stbx, ow was ok with him helping me with anything I needed. Obviously, that has changed. I guess what I'm saying is don't be too surprised if his tune changes mid-D.. I hope it doesn't and don't want to be the voice of doom and gloom.. I just saw it happen in my sitch when I needed/started to push back on some D details.
