Thanks for the kick in the a$$ (gentle as it was). Needed that. I can deal with her anger and the communication is in fact LAUGHABLE lately. I will keep reminding myself of the marathon. ANd really, if WW does push D, unless I consent, we need to be separated for a year - and I am not leaving - which makes this all the more BIZARRE. Will be interesting when OMW gets back from vacation.
Peaches, thanks for your comment. I agree 100% that family is the most important, yet WS don't see that. "Oh the K's will be fine if we D". WHATEVER!!!!! I told my WW that I gave up my right to just walk away from the M without trying absolutely EVERYTHING the minute D16 was born. The W of the family friends I referred to in my post you quoted actually warned WW that if she pushes D, she could easily lose D16 and S13 WHEN they find out about the A because they can choose where they want to live. Still not sure if that has sunk in.
bluerain, yes WW is still at home (we still sleep in the same bed). I think she expects me to simply leave so she can carry on with life as she has it now. No chance of that in my books.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
