The difference in our H's is that your H gets what he did and is sorry, mine doesn't have a clue.
My H sees his affair was wrong, but in his eyes, still totally justifiable because I was failing our marriage. He still sees NO fault in what led us to being vulnerable to affairs in the first place. If he *is* truly sorry, he hasn't ever told me.
It is so sad that this is probably true in 90% of our cases.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
