DQ, you probably thought you were being perfectly clear, but no, I did not get the point that I'm supposed to be talking her into doing a striptease for her. Reread your posts and ask yourself whether you honestly said that, or whether you expected all these DAM to read between the lines and just get it.
Did you say it or did you imply it?
If I could read a woman saying "Take an occasion when you get guaranteed sex as a gift and start there. Then do the following steps so she'll give you the striptease you want so much" and translate it to "Nurture your woman by maneuvering her into giving you a striptease, because no means yes and she actually wants to do it even if she says she doesn't" then I wouldn't be here.
Again, not to make excuses, but I was raised on "no means no." If you're going to try to teach me that "no means yes" then you're going to have to be patient.
