The difference in our H's is that your H gets what he did and is sorry, mine doesn't have a clue.
My H sees his affair was wrong, but in his eyes, still totally justifiable because I was failing our marriage. He still sees NO fault in what led us to being vulnerable to affairs in the first place. If he *is* truly sorry, he hasn't ever told me.
The peace we have is hard work, its easier to hate him, trust me. Even we talk about how far we've come in a year.
Thank you for your words, you are so wonderful yourself. I feel sorry for your H, passing up on the chance to have you in his life forever.
