well Thursday night we were going to see a movie but her one friend was leaving for a month so we met at a brew pub instead ( yay drunk angry waw) I really didn't talk to her much. I gave her space and talked to the other husbands/boyfriends. it was cool as a lot of the guys were interested in my strongman stuff. well we left that brew pup because it was a out door beer garden and went to a different one. Once again i didn't try to start conversation with my W just hung out. During the conversations I heard one of the other guys tell my W " I like Marcum he should come around more often." my wife gave me a side long look but didn't say anything
well I had to leave for a hour to give a drunk friend a ride home. before i did my W said if I could i should come back! I was so happy. the problem was when i came back all of her friends had left as it was midnight and she was still there, drunk. she went into this big speech how this was her bar and she was so well known. well this creepy guy was hitting on my W but instead of getting mad i just joined the conversation. this guy was a classic bar creep but my W was actually finding his " lines " funny. well when he went to the bathroom she told me her bartend s their and she has known him for t months and they are just friends. it turns out hes a 39 year old comic who travels and bartend s to make ends meet, a real winner!! anyway she goes on to say how he sleeps on her couch because he gets to drunk to drive and he will probably be sleeping there tonight. I didn't get made I just finished my beer and told her to be safe and have a good night, but i better get going.
folks I was a sobbing mess but then the next day she called me to say she had a good time. she is acting so destructive and not her self its almost laughable as it classically follows the mid life crises. I guess I will just keep my distance still and wit.
on a different note she called me again Friday night to tell me our stimuli's check had finally arrived. i made a quick mistake and called her back to say thanks. i failed in the rule were she didn't ask a question so i shouldn't have called her back. i did keep it quick. she mentioned she wants to maybe still see wall-e, but she was going to a baseball game on Sunday so she might be to drunk as its through " her bar" and its a all you can drink deal. impressive. I will let her call me.
