Well, I am glad to see you have a fresh new thread, for even more support. You deserve it, as you are there for many others as well.

Peaches, wanted to say something to you. I sit with my friend (who is going through this as well, her stbx is marrying OW in about a month), and we both say we don't want to be that angry x-wife always bad-mouthing H, etc. I pray for the strength for all of us to be stronger and wiser and get past the anger properly to move on.