Talked to the H of the friends that W went to see a couple weeks ago. He was not impressed with W at all re A nor with what she is doing. The support W said she had from them was all B.S. Was good for me to hear that they cannot understand why W is unhappy or why she would even think of breaking up our family.
Oh well, tomorrow is another day.
Family is so important and its so sad to see the WS be so self-centered. Half of first marriages end in divorce. The scary part is that 60% of second marriages end in divorce. I remember a friend of mine telling me. We never fight, well they divorced two years later. Only way I see success is don't avoid conflict, Validate, and also really bad fights.
It seems we have to learn how to fight fair? All the articles and books say fighting does help the marriage it just depends on how that is done. The make up sex isn't that bad either.
Me 48 H 54 Together 30 yrs M 29 yrs S 24 s 17 EA 10-2007 Denies it every happened
