WAW is full steam ahead

[LosingSunshine]

Neil, with regards to the ring, she hasn't been wearing hers since 2 days after the bomb...almost 4 weeks ago. I have mixed reasons as to why I want to stop wearing mine and really, I guess I just want to see what it is like for the most part.

At the beginning of our R I had to pursue her. There was an issue during our first weekend together where I travelled from DC to Dewey Beach to spend the weekend with her and she sent me home midway through because of her unresolved issues. I called her the following Monday and basically told her off for being rude. 2 weeks later I dropped her a line and slowly pursued her and things got back on track. Prior to me, she had a history of running away from problems and not wanting to deal with it. She vierwa that as a part if her independence I guess.

I have thought over the past few weekd if I should do what I did so many years ago and tell her as it is and fight for her actively but have chosen not to which has confused her as it wasn't the response she was expecting.

Small positive action on her part...she finished my laundry for me last night.


She thanked me for letting her go out this morning and was asking questions about the new church. The kids asked when she was going to go with us and she said I don't know.
So I am GAL today as she is finally going to spend some time with them.
It's a beautiful day here in sioux falls and counting down the weeks until the kids and I are at the OBX.