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I would let her ask for the $.......... but don't try to solve her problem by trying to help her. AGain, it's a fine line to travel, but i see your point. But, its her problem, not yours. While it does affect Abby, if your W is going to act like a responsible Parent, then this could be a nice lesson for her to learn....

maybe that doesn't make sense, but.....

ME:32 WAW:31
D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2
Together: 13 M:6
Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08
Sep legally: 6/18/08

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