Well, today is the day I guess my H and I are going to have some sort of "talk". MP53 - I never even thought it might be "the D" talk until you brought it up and now I think you are probably right. I am always misunderstanding where he is going and thinking with things, so I am now thinking you are probably right and he is wanting to finalize things. Don't know for sure, but believe me, I have been fretting about it. I have been praying and meditating and believe I will be fine, but does anyone know how I should respond if this is what he wants to discuss?
I've read some of the other posts about it and I'm hoping I can:
- not cry
- say that if this is what he really wants and thinks will make him happy, I won't fight him
- say that it is not what I want and that I am in the marriage for the long haul
All stuff I got out of other posts. Does that sound like what you all think I should do, based on my sitch?


Me-48 H-48
Married 25years
Sep 12/05
S-24, S-22, S-18, D-12
Dated for 9 months of S, not dating now
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1565826