I need more space from H, most definately, but will live with this for now to keep the peace. H knows things will change when the D is final and the house is in my name only.
I went out with my friend Friday night (my roommate from college, her cheating WAS will be marrying OW a month after their D, blecky) and we WON over $1000 at the casino! Kharma rules!!! We split it down the middle and left promptly without losing it. It was wonderful. I had to see her WAS the next day at her son's party. I was nice, but it was awkward, now I know how my friends feel dealing with my H at times.
H continues to get no sleep on the days that he works. He will be late again someday soon and lose his job. Not good for anyone involved.
Had trouble finding care for the girls today (H and I both work Sundays), and H's sisters stepped up right away. My babies will have a blast with their aunts and cousins today.