3. Remember this please a. Work validates us as men b. We do it mostly for our wives and family c. We understand it takes time away from family & that does bother us d. But we are so focus on where our career is going & what it can do for the family, that we don't stop & take time for the family {when I get this big account I'll take time then, but there will always be a big account = (}
It's not just men that do this. I think being too focussed on my job because I was doing it to make money to keep us afloat (plus it gave me a sense of belonging) is/was a major gripe of my h.
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As soon as you trust yourself you will know how to live. Goethe