I've been thinking of you all, Kim, Sage, Floyd, Will, Jeth, Jim, Raindeer... and many others. I'm always in a weird place cuz, well, cuz of the title of this post... it doesn't work. Not for me anyway. I can't go backwards. Kim, you of all are most like me except for the one fact that you and your H started out as friends.
I always kinda hoped or thought the big M would show up on my post because of my particular sitch... but alas... no pearls of wisdom from the buddess... oh well.
There is peace. My children are dancing. My yard work is done.
I sincerely hope you all find what you're looking for through this incredible task you've all set out to do. If anyone wants to say hi, or talk or whatever... my email is in one of Floydee's threads somewhere. Much love and peace.