Hi Gypsy. I don't think I have posted in your thread before, but I know we do have some of the same friends on DB. I moved here from newcomers too, and I too can't take the cheering over there. It sounds like we are kind of in the same place. I know in my sitch the D is going to be a reality. Detaching is something I still need to work at as well. This weekend I have let H have way to much effect on me and control. Good for you telling H to set up the online stuff himself. That is something I have always done and I know my H is going to get nervous when he has to start taking care of all the household stuff. It is kind of hard for us to GAL if we are the primary caregiver and worried about budget. I need to broaden my horizons to so if I think of anything good I'll share it with you.


R 23 years
M 20 years
Bomb June 2007
S Oct 2007
Ds 11 & 16
Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008