let's see

going out with friends again .....check
no drugs .......check
spending more time with family and son ..... check
praying (first time in over 15 years).....check
detaching and letting W do whatever while still supporting our son and her interests.....check


2. Your relationship with your wife is over when YOU say it is over ----MarkF

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